Here is the real Issue with some African Men

WHAT IS THE REAL ISSUE WITH AFRICAN MEN?

 

Some African men can be very selfish, impossible, chauvinistic and most times, amazingly myopic. You might not find this easy to swallow...I understand. That's because its simply the truth which remains bitter and better.

 

Clara and Duke have been dating since our final year in the University and on several occasions, I have been invited by Duke to help him beg Clara who always uncover him with one lady or the other. Yours sincerely, I kept on begging until they got married...even though I sincerely advised her against the marriage, but she won't have any of it...they finally got married.               

 

In their marriage, I kept receiving calls from Duke to help him plead with his wife because of his constant games. It got so bad that Clara almost committed suicide in order to have some peace. She caught him kissing his phone in the bathroom...a kiss he hasn't given her for about a month... For God's sake, Clara is a very beautiful lady with great intelligence and from a very comfortable home yet Duke treats her like trash. I had to confront him about it.

 

He told me boldly that he married Clara out of pity and for the fact that it was he who deflowered her...He married her to prove a point to all those who said he wouldn’t be able to stay faithful enough to marry her..."How could you mess with someone's life like that" I screamed.

 

Well, amidst his boasting and reckless mal-treatment to her, nemesis caught up with him...he lost his job. Got sacked on account of financial mismanagement.  All the pressure in their home shifted to poor innocent Clara. Her job became a life-line for the family...

 

Out of her deep-concern on her husband's joblessness, she spoke to her boss who eventually facilitated a job for him. You would be shocked at Duke's reaction when he found out it was Clara's boss that got him the job.

He started calling her names, accused her of infidelity and even asked her to leave his home...yet he didn't resign from the job.

 

My friend has been at my place for over two weeks now and she has almost cried her eyes out.

When I look at this whole scenario and how long they have been together...I am convinced that Duke had faked the whole relationship/marriage all the while and maybe my friend has also been faking all the orgasms too. It also makes me think that men in this region, precisely Africa are very mean.                        

 

If you think I am blabbing, then try to prove me wrong.

How is it that African men beg for and expect forgiveness from their wives when they are caught red-handed in the mud with their dangles uncovered? Yet and most-hypocritically would vehemently reject the plea of any woman in same situation?  In this case, my friend Clara is even innocent. Even in innocence, she has been asked to leave the house, what should we expect if she were having an actual affair?

 

Secondly, does it bruise a man's ego if his wife helps him get a job?

 What does Christianity say about divorce...because right now, I am tired of begging Duke, I'll rather advise her to leave him.

 

My friend seems to have some magnetic field from Duke around her that compels her to helplessly. All she says is that “he is the one that made me a woman”

 

So?

 

Angry Mary