I visited a family friend
over the week-end (the Johnsons) but did not exactly meet
them indoors… they told me to hold on for some minutes, that they were having a
meeting with their landlord. While I waited,
his beautiful six years old daughter and I got talking… ladies and
gentlemen…it was a talk I think I should speak to my friend about or may be not.
Help me decide the best way to approach this.
As I sat watching the
annoying and heart-breaking Isreali-Gaza barraging… and Ebola Dilemma, the
girlie just came to me and said, Uncle, let me see your “winki”, (For those who
are not familiar with the word, winki is a pet-word, a euphemistic way of
referring to “Penis”) her hands were already on my “garage”.(if you know what I
mean) I fumed and didn’t know if I should hit her or what? Then I spoke firmly
with a very angry face. “ Don’t you ever say or do that again, next time you
try such a thing, I will deal with you thoroughly” She said “I am sorry
uncle”…acted cold and remorseful for a second and like a system reboot, she asked
again, “but why don’t you want to show me your “winki”?...
At this point, I figured there was real problem. This child must have seen someone’s “winki” somewhere; considering that she asked with great confidence as if my refusal was being unfriendly to a child. “Show me naa uncle”, she continued and tried reaching for it again. I pushed her off and asked her…”Quincy, has anyone ever showed you their wiiii wwinki?
“Yes, but I won’t tell
you., but he said I should not tell any body...” she responded
“Who is the person?” I
shouted at the top of my voice with anger…”Who? Tell me, I won’t tell anybody”
I assured her.
“I don’t want you to tell
anybody, my daddy or mummy” she continued.
“I promise, I will not
tell anyone”, tell me, tell me….
“Okay, but show me first
before I tell you” she tried bargaining…I got really angry but I was keen on
getting more facts…possibly know what exactly is happening to my friend’s
daughter…is she being sexually abused? and by who?
While we bargained, the child ran out of the sitting room, possibly distracted
by something... I picked up a photo album and started flipping
through...(Knowing she would soon be back) Quincy returns and says "He is
here.., pointing at the photo album, he is inside the picture'" my head ran
wild.....Could it be someone really close?, a family friend or one of the
Johnson's? Hmmm.
The girl jumped and pointed
Johnson's cousin brother who stays with them. "Uncle, see uncle Ramz, he
use to show me his winki, but he said I should not tell anybody, now I have
told you" It was both confusing and annoying.. Then I asked her, does he
just show it to you? Or... She couldn't answer me before she got distracted....
And her parents step in…
Just then my dilemma
began…I remained in shock at how Ramsey who has been under Johnson’s roof for
years would go mad enough to start molesting his daughter… Ramsey is simply a
misfit for the society if all these I just experienced were true… I pity
Johnson, I pity his wife more and the little girl, the most.
Should I just spill it out
to the couple?
Carry out an
investigation?
Confront Ramsey?
Ask them if they already
started Sex-educating their daughter…if they have, isn't she too young at age
six?
If they haven't, what in
this whole wild world are they waiting for?
The ???? ran on…
D story is a sad one, one need to becareful who the kids the kids spend quality time with and also the time of things d child is learn. As for me me i will kill d guy.
ReplyDeleteVery poor parenting here. How could their own cousin slam them this hard and no one has an idea. You should tell them expressly without any further delay to avoid more issues
ReplyDeleteThis guy should be killed. pedophyl
ReplyDeleteWell the best way is to tell the parents wot dia daughter said to you via winki. Do not go any farther, jst advice dem to call her up and ask her who taught her that, I blive she will still call Ramsey. #foolishRamsey. #Endtime
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