“My husband and I are not on same page regarding one
of the new staff he just hired. According to him, he told me the best candidate
after the interviews was a lady. A single lady in her early thirties. I really
don't have an issue with her being the best candidate, my problem is the fact
that my husband now has her number and he has been calling her before she actually
resumes, that is if she ever does. I also discovered that the next person in
line is a younger guy who has direct experience on Personal Assistance, yet the
marks are not favoring him.
He is simply bent on hiring a female personal
assistant knowing that they would have to travel together, be together all day
at the office and gradually, she would..."You know the rest". I
suggested, pleaded, encouraged and persuaded my husband to hire the guy for the
best interest of all and for my mind to be at rest all to no avail.
Whenever I
brought up the topic, my husband would start implying that I am accusing
him...of some infidelity which he hasn’t committed, he would get overtly
annoyed and just today, he landed me a slap". In the hurt that my husband
slapped me just because of a female applicant, I became more than determined
that he would never recruit that lady as PA”.
Instead of that happening, I would leave his house.
You have read it. Please give your candid advice.
There is nothing wrong in hiring a female PA.The man can still for underG runs even if he hires a male PA..now that there us gay system ,who knows the man can start being a gay too? The most important factor is the woman shd not worry over what may never happen.
ReplyDeleteAaahh. My bro o dikwa very risky bcos she is too sexy!!!. Babe oku. To me I prefer male PA to oga n female PA to madam. Mostly the married oga n madam. Expect the single ogas n madam. They can mingle n tangle. U knw wat I mean. But the married ones is very risky. Expect the d disciplined n God fearing ones.
ReplyDeleteWell the woman is speculating or anticipating what has not yet happen. In any case she should learn to trust her husband. Some company like to hire a female PA to boost the image of the company she should forget about infidelity knowing that the man works hard to feed the family.
ReplyDeletemen never hear. they think they are too strong. when you tell them, they quickly accuse of you of insulting and not trusting them. a woman's instincts is almost never wrong. if I were you.. I would do what my wife says on this issue.
ReplyDelete@Timmie, what do you mean by "Some company like to hire a female PA to boost the image of the company" women have just been swept under and men now ride them as they like... even the men that cheat on their wives also fend for their family.
ReplyDeleteWell all I see here is not distrust,what I see is intuition at play and I sincerely think the man should listen,he better choose family to P.A if he is reasonable
ReplyDeletePersonally, there shouldn't be an issue here, however, the man is already spending time with her on the phone even before her resumption at work! Meaning there is already some attraction. The man should listen to his wife cos he may end up messing up and bringing troubles to his home. Margaret
ReplyDeletePersonally, there shouldn't be an issue here, however, the man is already spending time with her on the phone even before her resumption at work! Meaning there is already some attraction. The man should listen to his wife cos he may end up messing up and bringing troubles to his home. Margaret
ReplyDeleteI do not see anything wrong in hiring a Female PA, because they are good in that department. But in this case, I think I support the wife. Why should my husband slap me because of his female PA in the first place, there must be something going on or about to. Summary. It's normal to have a female PA, but in this man's case is WRONG joor. The man na guy man
ReplyDeleteDiscipline and preference.
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious men has created a lot of insecurity amongst their wives, because if their attitude towards other females around, so much that there seem to be no trust in our relationships and @ homes too, for me even if u prevent him from hiring her officially, u may not be able to stop him from sneaking around too, so it's better u be ur self, do ur bit as a good wife, and pray for him, sometimes it's even we the women that put ideas into them, because of our attitude, mostly in security and nagging. Be ur self.
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